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Welcome to WhoMentoredYou.org Mentor Tributes. We hope you find these tributes inspiring and meaningful. Tributes are displayed alphabetically by the mentor's last name. Please use the index on the left sidebar to search for a specific tribute.

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Mentor: Alderwood Rotary Club

The Student Adventures In Learning Program would like to take this opportunity to thank the Alderwood Rotary Club for all the time and effort they put into mentoring SAIL students. For SAIL students to be successful, we need adult involvement. To a great extent this program’s success is a result of our Rotary commitment.

During the past five years, approximately 250 students have been fortunate to benefit from this powerful experience. With a rotarian’s guidance, a former SAIL student graduated from High School, then four years later, graduated from Washington State University and just recently received his MBA from the University of Utah. Through his experience with his Rotary mentor, this student gained the confidence he lacked and saw in himself the ability to succeed. As adults we do not realize the impact we have on these young people. We may think that our one hour meeting or chatting over lunch or breakfast doesn’t make a difference, but I can tell you from the success stories I hear, they make a big difference in the lives of youth.

This summer the Alderwood Rotary mentored thirty-two SAIL students. I know that some of these students presented some significant challenges to the mentors. It seems that every year our young people are coming to school with ever increasing complex problems or needs which is why it is so important than ever that we have caring adults like the Rotary mentors in these young lives and we THANK YOU ALDERWOOD ROTARY.

SAIL Program
Lynnwood, WA

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Mentor: Vince Barbato

Sometimes we forget how we got where we are and the choices we made or paths we took to get there. I can reflect on the day that my path was carved out the right direction and it is due to my mentor, Vince Barbato. He took a chance on me and we immediately clicked. Through the laughs and some pain, we became great friends and he taught me a lot about human nature and myself. Thanks to Vince, I have succeeded where others failed before and I have the passion to keep trying to do accomplish more. I miss our daily interaction now, but I know that he is there for me when I need it.

Janis Randazzo
Santa Ana, CA

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Mentor: John Buddie

Somehow, somewhere, I’m still not quite sure how and why, my plight as an eager novice with a dream of showing and breeding Collies became recognized by one of the dog world’s top breeders—John Buddie of Tartanside, a legend in Collies whose extraordinary achievements have earned him his place in history.

It was at a dog show last May when, having observed my rookie efforts from afar, John’s sense of duty to the Breed kicked in. While tentatively grooming my Collie, my mistakes clearly apparent, John walked over—and immediately took over. He showed me how to brush her coat. How to hold the scissors properly. The correct way to trim ears. He shared stories about the sport and Collie history so I could feel less inadequate, and more like a part of the “family.” It was the start of a wonderful friendship.

To this day, John continues to teach, share and inspire in his efforts to help me find my way…and to "give back" to the Breed he so loves. He is the very best a Mentor can be. He answers questions with a question—so I can formulate my own conclusions. He educates, not dictates, so I can develop my own perspective. His encouragement keeps me hopeful that maybe—just maybe!—I can achieve something of value in Collies.

Indeed what I learned from John goes beyond dogs—it is about selfless generosity: We should learn to share the best of us with each of us, towards a common goal of excellence.

Thanks John for your time, patience and knowledge. Thanks for being an inspiration. My journey is far from over…but if I should ever have the good fortune to beat you in the show ring someday, just remember it is only because YOU taught me how!

Mikki Dorsey
Tarrytown, NY

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Mentor: Lori Cohee

I met Lori at Children’s Hospital Oakland. She brought a huge teddy bear! I didn’t know she was there to see me, or what an impact she would have on my life. She introduced herself, we talked, and she asked if I wanted her to be my mentor. I jumped at the opportunity. I was excited, never imagining what it entailed.

Since Lori began mentoring me, great things have happened. My sister and I attended Foster A Dream’s second Valentine’s Day Ball. Foster A Dream bought dresses and accessories. This was great because I couldn’t attend Junior or Senior Prom. Then there was graduation; I MADE IT!

I enrolled in extra classes and attended night school, while battling Heart Disease. Lori didn’t approve of my strenuous schedule, so she helped find missing credits from my freshman year. These new credits meant no more night school.

Three days before graduation, she stayed up until 11:00 helping me design a website for history class. This was extra credit, to make up credits I missed in the hospital getting my second open-heart surgery.

How many graduates can say they had a job at an organization like at Foster A Dream, out of high school? I’ve learned many valuable skills. She helped get my first car. She’s been taking me out to practice driving, so I can take my test. She helped me get back into school, this time college. I aspire to be a children’s rights attorney, and my mentor says she’ll do everything in her power to get me there. With her amazing track record I don’t doubt her. I know once Foster A Dream’s mentor program is launched in January, there’ll be more stories like mine. I’m living proof of what mentors can do for you, and it’s not over yet!

Porsche Hudson
Vallejo, CA

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Mentor: Gwen Conedy

When I was a youth in the church I grew up in, there was this lady that I would always see. She was always smiling, you would see her encouraging and helping others and she had a genuine interest in the young people. When I was in my twenties she took an interest in me, she began to mold me and teach me things. She actually is my youngest son's Godmother, but I adopted her as mine too. She is the founder of Weaker Vessel Women’s Ministries International, and she is also the Spiritual Advisor for Mentor Ministries. I have worked along side her in ministry as her armor bearer and her assistant for many years, and to this day I have never seen her argue or fuss with anyone. She has taught me a lot about ministry and how to carry myself as a woman of God and for all of this I thank her.

Karin Pearson
Rancho Cucamonga, CA

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Mentor: Pastor Kimberly M. Ervin

I thank her for her Godly wisdom that she so generously shares. Pastor Kim is an example of a Godly Woman who is able to balance marriage, family and ministry and she does it well. She leads the women of One One One by example. Have you ever met someone who is always there for you, always able to lend an ear? Well, that is Pastor Kim! Over the past eight years she has imparted so much into me, which has shaped me through her teaching, preaching, counseling and her friendship. I appreciate her so much for believing in me, and trusting me with the young women of One One One Christian Church. She has been there for me during the rough times in my life, as well as the good times. I thank her for not only being my Pastor and my Mentor, I thank her for being my Friend.

Karin Pearson
Ranch Cucamonga, CA

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Mentor: Eleanor Foster

In honor of My Mother Eleanor Foster, I wanted to share with the world the importance of the gift of a loving mother, and the influence she has on the lives of her children. My prayer is that this will inspire sons & daughters to recognize, respect and receive from their mother as well as to cherish their relationships,realizing that their mother is A Gift from God.

My mother my mentor, was a true example of a Woman of God. She displayed the attributes of the Fruit of the Spirit in her daily living.

My mother my mentor, was loved by all because she knew that God is love and she shared that love with everyone.

My mother my mentor, instilled her wisdom, strength, knowledge and love into making me who I am today.

My mother my mentor, was kind, generous and caring. I have seen my mother give her last to those who were in need.

My mother my mentor, was faithful to God which explains her faithfulness to her family, her church and her pastor.

My mother my mentor, was committed to God and she displayed that commitment through her work in the ministry.

My mother my mentor, gave me guidance, instruction, advice and wise counsel.

My relationship with my mother was like no other, she was always there for me. My mother gave of herself, not just to me, but to each of her children equally. There was no favoritism ever in our family, which is a quality for a firm foundation that I have duplicated in my own family. Cherish, love and respect your mother, she knows what is best for you.

If by chance your relationship with your mother may not be what it should be, now is the this time to mend it. Thank God for your mother, and one day your child will thank God for you.

Karin Pearson
Rancho Cucamonga, CA

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Mentor: Kim G.

I had my first job at a retail store near where I live. I did not last at this job, because it was a bad match, and so I had to move on. I was there for the 90 day training period, and while I was there, I really felt positively impacted by the actions of one particular executive team leader, Kim. I miss you, Kim, wherever you are now. I miss the friendly smiles and waves that she would give me whenever we had all or part of a shift together, and I liked that because people usually don't take the time to do that for me, because they want to. She called me dearie, which I just thought really made me smile, when I was scared.

She went the extra mile to see that I was attended to, when I had to leave my cashiering lane for health reasons. She was just awesome in helping me with just all sorts of things, and I hope that we might cross paths again sometime. I will always carry with me the memories that you gave me, that made my experience brighter.

Thank you, Kim G. I will always have you in my prayers. You made a difference in my life and showed me that you cared, by your words and actions and that is what I remember most. I really hope we have the pleasure of bumping into one another again, where we first met. Kim- you are really one of those few caring people left in the world. Bless you for being so nice.

Liz S.
Lincolnshire, IL

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Mentor: Lori G.

Lori and I hit it off immediately, over two years ago, because of our similiar personalities (both ENFPs!), our love for coffee, and our celebratory way of seeing and living life. I was a junior in college and she my supervisor at the Service-Learning Center at the college where I worked. I was going through a lot with my parents' divorce and she was ALWAYS available to go for coffee, give me a pep talk and to challenge me to live life honestly and fully, even in the midst challenges. Lori is the type of person that loves to give of herself to everyone she meets...she even let me live at her house for a couple months when I didn't have anywhere to go. She is full of God's grace and love. Thanks, Lori, for being who you are!

Cicely W.
Grand Rapids, MI

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Mentor: Joseph Hermann

Since I can remember being able to remember, I have always wanted to be just like my dad. He is a band director and his love and passion for music education is none like I have ever seen in one person before in my life. His lifelong dedication to his profession has had such a profound impact on my life. I suppose I have always loved music, but his inspiration and mentoring are what make me the band director and the person I am today. I am proud to say that my father has been my mentor and my very best friend. His guidance and leadership and most of all his undying love for me have made me the strong woman that I am now. He will always have my utmost respect, and most of all my undying devotion and love.

Megan H.
West Des Moines, IA

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Mentor: Peggy K.

To Peggy, a strong role model and a dear friend . . .

Thank you for taking a chance on me, a young employee, not really "qualified on paper" for the job.

Thank you for helping me learn and navigate the politics of a unique organization within a large corporation.

Thank you to Peggy for being such a strong role model for working mothers and for helping me define my career goals with my family in mind.

Meredith B.
Washington, DC

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Mentor: Mr. Kemalyan

My apologies about not remembering your first name, but it has been more than 35 years since I learned, in one weekend, how to write intelligibly.

As an advisor in the YMCA Youth In Government program you managed to accomplish something in one weekend that no other teacher had accomplished in my 12 years of prior schooling, and it was your patience, kindness, and caring that made the difference.

Today I teach computer technologies. As a way of showing my respect to you, and others like you, I always try to give my students some of the same things you gave to me years ago. Hence, your gift has multiplied.

One person can make a difference. You certainly did. Thank you.

David Schamus
Topanga, CA

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Mentor: Susan McWorth

You waded thru alot of attitude to help expand my knowledge, me,at 40+ trying to learn what most 20somethings know. And even after the course was passed you stayed on as my friend, thru alcoholism and disability, divorce and job loss you encouraged and comforted. Had your own bad times yet still found time for me. There may have been a fee for the course work, but for the rest you never got a dime. And it was thru those kindnesses that I have learned the most of all.

Passing on what you have taught me will be an honor and a pleasure.

Thank you Sue.

Rhonda Turkington
Vancouver, WA

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Mentor: Sabrina Moore

My story begins not as a child, but as an adult. In 2003, I had a heart transplant, and when I was released from the hospital, I was given a wonderful nurse to follow my progress and to help me in ways I can't begin to explain. Sabrina Moore is always there with a kind word, she lifts me up when I am down, she makes sure that I am safe, and she just supplies the support that is so necessary with transplant recipients. She makes sure that I have adequate medication, she makes all my doctor appointments, she makes other appointments as needed. She is an Angel disguised as an ARNP! Thanks my friend, for being there when I need you.

Norma Lowe
Fort Pierce, FL

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Mentor: Debbie Moretti

I just wanted to say thank you for all you have done. Help my husband get a job, loan me baby equipment I didn't have money for, making guest gifts for my wedding, introducing me to new, fun, free activities, all your phone calls, listening to me many many many time, and anything else I have not mentioned!!! I know that you have a busy life yourself, but thank you for making time for me and my family! You are a very special woman and I really enjoy your friendship! I hope you have wonderful holidays and a happy new year! thank you for EVERYTHING.

Jessica O.
Bellevue, WA

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Mentor: Tom Murphy

Mr. Murphy was my Band instructor. I had always lived in the shadow of my two older brothers, one of which was an outstanding athlete, the other, a gifted saxaphone player. Mr. Murphy gave me the skills to not only become one of the top trumpet players in the state, but also gave me the confidence I needed to get out of my brothers' shadows and create my own light.

Mr. Murphy showed me that I could be someone special, and that I had the ability to outshine anyone who stood between me and my goals. To this day, he remains my inspiration when working with my own students. Thanks, Mr. Murphy.

Steve Oakley
Deposit, NY

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Mentor: Karla Nicholas

I wrote this poem...to my mentor, thanking her for all that she has done for me in the past year and a half—two years. She continues to help me each and every day become a better person than I was the day before.

Oh the ways that you’ve inspired me,
The touching words that you say,
You’ve helped me to see things in
Ways that I had not seen before.
I’ve poured out my various concerns,
And you’ve guided me to forgive;
To forgive and see the good:
The good in others and myself,
The good that I can do;
The good of what praying will do.
God blessed me with you as my friend;
God knew I would face some hard times,
But He also knew, you’d help me through.
You’ve been a friend, a mentor.
You’ve cared so much more than others;
You’ve seen how homesick I’ve gotten,
And you’ve been like a second mom.
And when I’ve been so homesick,
Or even when I failed to appreciate
All the guidance and love, and hope
From my mother and my father,
You’ve helped me to see their true love,
The reasons why they do those things
That they feel are best for me,
You’ve helped me to see the way.
You’ve given me advice for the future,
The future that I cannot yet see
And to warn me about the future that should not be.
You’ve done so much just for my sake.
I thank God everyday for you.
You’re one of my many blessings,
You’re my friend and my mentor too.

Ashley A.
Temple Terrace, FL

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Mentor: Janis Randazzo

Janis,

I would like to take a moment to thank you for all the time and patience you have had with me. I really look up to you has my mentor. You have been very uplifting and inspirational to me. You have taught me to be patient and to look past the moment and to look at the big picture. Even though I have made mistakes, you have not given up on me. You amaze me all the time with your many talents. You never stop. I admire you not only on a professional level but on a personal level as well. You are truly a gifted person. I want to thank you for taken a chance on me. In addition, I ask that you continue to have patience with me as I grow & develop in my new role. Thank you again for being there.

Lots of Love,
Kim

Kimberly Foscaldo
Riverside, CA

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Mentor: Brad Remington

Brad Remington is my youth director at Pleasant Valley UMC in Wichita. He is such a great person. I've only known him for a few months but he has turned out to be one of the few adults I can trust. Not only does he serve as a mentor to me, but to all the kids in our youth group as well as some of the little ones. He arranges for us to go on a ski trip, and he arranges things for the youth to do during their off time in the summer. He teaches Sr. High Bible Study on Wednesdays and youth lessons or fun events on Sundays. During the summer he arranges Terrific Tuesdays with Brad.

He has a wonderful family and is a wonderful dad to his baby girl, Payton. He listens to us youth when we have a problem we need help dealing with. Thanks Brad!!!!

Caitlyn P., 15
Wichita, KS

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Mentor: Stanley Shimada

The past six years of my life have been a complete blessing because of one man. Mr. Stanley Shimada has been my teacher, mentor, and friend since elementary school. He has seen me through anything and everything.

He has guided me throughout some of the roughest times in my life and continues to do so everyday. This man has witnessed me at my best and my worst. He has never lost hope in me and strongly believes in my future.

Although Mr. Shimada is a music teacher who I started taking clarinet lessons with, he has turned into so much more. He has provided me with guidance and advice in order to help me have a better life. Together, he is helping me to constantly improve my lifestyle, not by looking at others, but my looking at myself first.

If there's anything he has said that I will always remember, it's "everything is equal to you." What you put in is what you get back. Effort is the key, but that effort needs to come from the heart or else there is little sense in doing it. I was also taught the importance of appreciation for all things in life, good or bad. To be thankful is to show humility and this has helped me to realize that things happen for a reason and whether it's a positive or negative event, I can always benefit from it.

I owe Mr. Shimada so much because he has never lost his faith in me. He has kept me going when I thought I couldn't go any further and he has also given me the confidence to set goals in life and work towards achieving them. Because of his kind, sincere efforts, I'm now very clear on my educational and personal goals. Through his guidance, I'm also certain that I will make all of these dreams reality.

Kelli Miura, 17
Honolulu, HI

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Mentor: Bill Shultz

It was fall of 1999 when I met Mr. Shultz for the first time. He was an outside candidate interviewing for a management position with our company and I had recently been hired as an assistant in the Human Resources department. I hadn’t had a fatherly influence in my life and was very inexperienced in the business world. Unknowingly, I was looking for a role model/mentor for guidance. Bill filled that role perfectly. Over the next few years he would become very influential in my career and life. Bill had a different perspective than most of the businessmen I had met. He was very positive and passionate about his job and he was as concerned about the people he managed as he was about the company. He truly cared and he taught me that you could be caring, ethical and successful at the same time. He showed me how to make work exciting for others and how to have a positive impact on people’s performance and in their lives while carrying out the companies objectives. A few years later he prepared me for my own management position and I have been able to utilize his knowledge and teachings to have an impact on my associates as well. I am very appreciative that he took his own time to teach me how to have a positive impact on others, because he certainly had a positive impact on me.

Nathan Kellar
Omaha, NE

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Mentor: Jack Silas

One thousand thanks for your mentoring and support. In 1988, while serving as your office manager at Rosewood Elementary School, you shared a career pathway (Occupational/Vocational Teaching) with me that would change my life for the better. Your coaching and on-going encouragement helped me realize the importance of achieving and acquiring skills that make a difference in the lives of the youth that I serve. Each time I reach a barrier, or attempt to enter a new arena, I am able to call you, share my issues and as always, you end my mentoring session with, "It's going to be alright, you can do it, just give it your best." Today, I am blessed to be living my career dream, as an LAUSD Career Resource Advisor for at-risk youth ages 14-21. I give thanks to you and all the other mentors that stick-and-stay with those of us who need people like you. My journey has been a blessed one, to name a few; I have been honored with awards, opportunities, and achievements - 2004 Anderson & Anderson Anger Management Certification for Adolescent, 2000 & 2004 LAUSD Options Program - Jerry Dean Medallion Award Recipient, 1999 Operation Hope six week work experience program in ISRAEL with nine LAUSD high school students, 1999, State of CA EDD (YEOP) Outstanding Service Awar. Since 1988 I have maintained my Occupational/Vocational Teacher Credential, I have facilitated many successful Career/Mentor Day events, and career planning workshops for youth and trainers. I continue to participate in on-going trainings and educational programs to keep my clients job-ready. Mr. Silas, I have adopted your mentoring style and I will continue to pass on the same passion for helping others as you do. Thank you and may you forever remain a "Mentoring Star."

Linda F. Miles
Inglewood, CA

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Mentor: Todd Simpson

I've been lucky enough to have more than one mentor in my life, but today I want to pay tribute to my most recent mentor - and my boss - Todd Simpson.

Todd knew me through a professional association for fundraisers, although we worked for different organizations. Todd saw something in me that made him ask me to consider working with him. I accepted, and for 2 1/2 years Todd encouraged me, challenged me and praised me.

Todd did something every great mentor does - he LISTENED, and he dared me to dream. He never criticized - he made suggestions. He never let me slack - he always pushed me to do my best, and set an example by always doing his best.

He encouraged my ideas - but he also made me justify them. He made sure I took responsibility, and he always gave me credit when it was due.

Best of all, Todd never tried to hold me back, even when I accepted another position. He told me from the beginning he wanted me to grow, and I know he's proud of my professional career climb.

He should be. Without him, I would never have reached my goals so quickly. Thank you, Todd. You've been a great mentor!

Brenda Helget
Omaha, NE

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Mentor: Kona (Donald) Smith

Hawaiian Studies teacher at Waianae High School, this man has touched the lives of so many of his students that has encouraged us to go forth & pursue our own dreams & goals. At the time I was going through his class (1970s), I didn't realize that my journey had started and would evolve me to what I am today. Kona never "made" us learn, but often told us that the choice was always ours to make. But the choices we made could either make us, or break us. Altho' Kona's curriculum was Hawaiian studies based, he taught many of us the basics of making lifelong decisions.

For me, the day I stepped in to his class was the day I would go deeper into the Hawaiian culture as I never had imagined. Today, I am a Kumu Hula (hula teacher) based in all the rich tradition that our culture has to offer. If Kona had not planted that seed of knowledge back then, I'm sure my life path would be different. But I have him to thank; as we say in Hawaii, "Mahalo."

Class of 1976

Darice S.
Waianae, HI

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Mentor: David Stewart

In high school we all have those things that we did to try to separate us from the others. I am no exception. There was one teacher that honestly helped me come through it all with a smile and encouraged.

Mr. Stewart was the teacher that kids made fun of because he was different. He was bubbly, fun, carefree and sweet. He had a heart made of PURE GOLD. He cared for each of his students as if they were his own child.

He would help me before and after school with anything that I needed help with; let it be homework, personal problems, or just needed a smile to get me through the day.

To this day, sometimes I wonder what high school would have been like without him. I am not too sure that I would have had many days that I smiled!

Thank you Mr. Stewart!

Victoria Marshall
South Pasadena, CA

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Mentor: Kiefer Sutherland

I think we all need a little help finding what direction to take our lives in sometimes, and that there are no boundaries to what can be an influence. For that reason I'd like to thank a man that I have never met, but that over the last few years has enabled me to find not only a sense of direction, but of purpose too.

I have always loved to write and have been fascinated by stories and movies as far back as I can remember. It's always been my dream to one day be able to put my own story into the world, to touch people's hearts and minds and hopefully continue that cycle of creativity that has been so beneficial to me. Though I feel that had I never seen the passion and dedication with which Kiefer Sutherland brings his roles to life, I don't think I'd have been brave enough to persevere with my dreams and devote those same admirable energies to my own work.

By creating a character built on those same strengths, I have managed to bring a solid backbone to my work and give myself the encouragement to bring the story to life; that in turn has given my life more purpose in the process. Perhaps the word muse is better than mentor in my case, but the cycle of influence is just as powerful. If I hadn't set myself the target of making a role worthy of Kiefer's talents, I think I'd have lost hope long ago that my story was worth telling.

So thank you Kiefer for making such a difference to my life and helping me enjoy living it so much more. Bless you.

Kelly Mellor
Newbury, Berkshire, United Kingdom

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Mentor: Brenda Trimble

Somtimes, people that enter your life can take you by surprise.When I was fifteen my gym teacher that I thought very highly of did just that by becoming my mentor. It takes a great person to extend grace and kindness to someone but just the same, it takes someone extrodinary to be a mentor. I thank God that I'm lucky enough to have one everyday.

Brenda Trimble,
You were gracious enough to take me under wing.
You shared your wisdom and your time.
You taught me that things are not always easy, but that life is 10 percent what happens to you and 90 percent how you choose to react to it. You always have time for me, and that means a lot, even if it's just for a quick ten minute chat or that I just need a hug.You, Brenda Trimble, are a spiritual mentor and great example that I am proud to look up to. Thank you for being there and most of thanks for just caring. Thank you a thousand times over. I wish you the best.

Fawn Musser, 17
Wellington, FL

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Mentor: Ben Villanueva

Throughout these many years, I can only think about one person that has been an outstanding mentor to me...My father, Ben Villanueva.

He is a person that helped define who I am–my personality, my work ethic, and my common sense. He has always been there for me from the beginning. He has always been reliable. He consistently motivated me to do my very best. He has been a metaphor for hard work. He never believed in quitting. He made sure that he finished what he started. He inspires me to do the same to this day.

When I was younger, I would always think that my father was too involved with my life, consistently trying to advise me all the time. We had our conflicts and arguments. But I think it was good because, unlike other people that I know, I had someone who would listen to me and someone that I can talk to, especially in the cases that I needed help.

We came to the United States, from the Philippines, with little money, but with a lot of hopes and dreams. He has helped make those dreams a reality, through his perseverance and his love for his family.

He has been an excellent provider for myself and everyone else. No matter what challenges we may have had, he was willing to face those challenges and do his best to overcome them. He rooted for the underdog and believed that someday, through education, that the underdog would be successful. He continues to support me, especially now that I am going through graduate school.

I can go on and on about my dad, writing more than the 300 word maximum that I am allowed here. But I want to stop now, and reflect more to myself, about how appreciative I am because of his presence in my life. Thanks Dad. Even though that I am not a carbon copy of you, everything that you have taught me was important and useful throughout these many years. You are truly one of a kind. My tribute to you, besides these few words, will be to continue to honor you and our family through my actions and success in the future.

 

Ronald Villanueva
Los Angeles, CA

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Mentor: Jeffrey Voss

Mentor: (n.) A wise and faithful counselor or monitor

Jeffrey Voss is the definition of a mentor. He has indirectly inspired us into the NCOs people perceive us to be today.

He taught us we could start making a difference with our lives today, in the job we currently hold, not the ideal job we hope we might hold someday in the distant future. He served as a brain to pick, an ear to listen and a push in the right direction.

Thanks for everything VOSSMAN!
-DAI NCOs

"Successful people turn everyone who can help them into sometime mentors!"

~ John Crosby

Earle Reyes
Arlington, VA

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Mentor: Cynthia Williams

I met Cynthia while I was a student at Dunbar Senior High School in Washington, DC. She was the Career Counselor and I was a member of the Jobs for American Graduates club. She taught the members to write resumes, patience in the job hunting process, and prepared us to go on job interviews. She also has style and grace that any young woman would be blessed to have as a role model in their lives.

Though my father is very involved in my life, I did not have a strong female to be there for me, especially during the hard times in life. Cynthia was there for me during my college days, during my times of illness and loss of loved ones in my family. She is like a mother to me. Her family also grew fond of me and consider me a part of the family.

Cynthia is a very compassionate woman and I'm very lucky to her her in my life. Through her wisdom, love, and support, I have become a better person.

Jackie Fuller
Washington, DC

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Mentor: Oprah Winfrey

I am a 29 year old woman and I am a mentor. I can honestly say that growing up was a real challege for me. I was a young mother. I had 3 children by the time I was 21 years old. I never even gave college a thought. I am very blessed and fortunate now because looking back I never had a mentor. There was absolutely no one that I looked up to or wanted to follow in their footsteps. No one. I thank God for Oprah Winfrey though. Even though I have never met her in person, I feel that if I had to choose anyone in the world that I would like to follow footsteps it would hands down be her. She is a blessing to people that she does nice things for and to the people that just get to watch her show or to go onto her website. She is so deep and below the surface and she is rich and still generous and able to tell people thank you. She is not only beautiful on the outside but she also is a gem in the inside and she has a heart. You know that by some of the topics that she discusses. Most billionaires could care less because it's not their problem. She still cares. Oprah shows me that my dreams can come true. I can be a very wealthy woman and still help people and especially help children. I would just like to thank Oprah for not forgetting and sharing her life and how to live healthy to continue to be happy. Her generosity has no choice but to spill over to others and to make them do the same.

Kiuwha S.
Pontiac, MI

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Mentor: Ron Young

My older brother has mentored numerous young people on his journey through this life, but as his only sister, I believe he took special efforts with me. From a very early age, I remember him always being near, always willing to listen and offer help and insight, and anxious to provide intellectual and social stimulation. But above all, he was brave and committed enough to shine a light for me, and others, along a path he foresaw for each. When he was later stationed in Holland, he encouraged me, a small-town high school student, to save money for a plane ticket to visit him, and when I did, he then laid all Europe and its wonders at my feet. The “Grand Tour” was indeed great, not merely because it included all the stops, but also because it opened my eyes to the delightful variety of cultures, cuisines and customs on the continent, as well as affording me the wonderful experience of having an older brother’s devoted, undivided attention for over two months. I was only 16 at the time, and that trip alone was a strong factor in determining my future. Arming me with the confidence and the know-how to continue on my own, he offered the greater world to my young, eager soul. I have so much to thank him for, and this is a wonderful place to do so.

Oh, and just for the record, I later became a teacher here in Europe, so I suppose that I am, in some way, humbly passing it on. Muchas gracias, Ron, from my students to you!

Susan Y.
Valencia, Spain

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No Name Given

Mentoring Poem

My waiting for a Mentor is done.
Hurry up tuesday and come.

He is HERE for me.
What new stuff will we do or see?

I used to hate school everyday.
Now TUESDAY I get to read, laugh and play.

On this day I love to go.
I know he will always show.

I am so proud to be matched with him.
Oh YEAH, his name is JIM.

If you ask me, "What I want to be."
I'd have to tell you A MENTOR just like HE.

Theo Marie
Three Rivers, MI

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Reading Teacher, Clarksville Middle School
I think you know that you saved me, but I don't really know for sure. I wish I remembered your name, but I don't. All I know is that you were a safe haven during a really tough storm for me.

I was a student teacher at Clarksville, and things weren't too hot between me and my cooperating teacher. Looking back, I know I played a bigger role in our problems than I could see at the time, but nonetheless the support I needed from my cooperating teacher was not there and things were pretty dark for me. You stepped in and gave me a hand though. You gave me feedback and information, you modeled such good practices for me, and even though we never discussed the problems I was having you were a shoulder to lean on.

In the end it was you who helped me both personally and professionally. I never told you then because with the nature of the situation it didn't seem appropriate, but you were a lifesaver and an inspiration.

Thanks.

Tara C.

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