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As we celebrate the second Thank Your Mentor Day on January 25, 2005, express your appreciation to your mentor by submitting a tribute of your own.

* The Harvard Mentoring Project makes no effort to ascertain the authenticity or accuracy of any tributes posted on this web site.

My mentor in my life was my grandmother, Eleanor Aiello. She always took me under her wing and guided me in the directions of faith, hope and much love. She owned a florist business with my grandfather and showed me how to deal with people at an early age. We all helped during the holidays and I became confident in dealing with the public. When I became a teenager, it was my grandmother who took me to my first adult movie (James Bond). I was 13 at the time and it was just me and my grandmother who went to the movies. My grandmother was a treasure as everyone she came in contact with always wanted to stay or visit. A dynamic personality she had. A woman who knew the ropes to success. How to help people in need. A true mentor. Grandma is gone now, but her wisdom, courage, stamina and her love will be with me forever. I love you grandma.

Patricia G. S.
Port St. Lucie, FL

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At the age of 14, I was put into a pregnancy prevention program for youth who had older sisters who were teen moms. My sister was one year older than me and became pregnant at the age of 15, my mother was pregnant at the age of 18, and my grandmother was also 15 when she became pregnant. I am proud to say that I am the first to break that cycle and I would attribute much of that and more to my Mentor, Dana Allen. Dana and I clicked from the first day that I met her. I shared everything with her, and she became one of my closest friends. Looking back, I can see exactly why Dana became such an important factor in making me who I am today; she opened up to me. My whole life I thought that I was the only person going through what I was going through. I thought that nobody else in the world had ever been in my situation. Dana showed me that not only was I wrong, but that she too had shared a similar past and had gone through similar things that I was dealing with. She showed me that there was another way of life. She showed me that I did not have to follow the footprints of my family but that I could create my own. If Dana hadn’t showed me long ago that this was all possible, I know that it wouldn’t be. But if there is anything that Dana did that made a difference was she shared her faith with me. Dana knew that I was a Christian and she really helped me to be the best I could be for God. Thank you Dana for your time and energy, but most of all for just being you and for letting me see who you were.

Jessica Lopez
San Diego, CA

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Hello. I just want to thank you for taking me to your job and teaching me things that I never knew before. I just want to thank you for coming to my school and teaching me things that I need to know. Thank you very much.

Chris S., 13
Danville, KY

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My mentor has been my own family!

Each and every member of my family helped, understood me well and supported me in a real right way.

"Thanks" in a family [is] a prohibited word, though i believe from my heart that my family is my mentor! And i will strive to give 100% to my family in every possible way i can!

Ameet Ammu
Hyderabad, India

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Kevin... what can i say about Kevin, other than he is a very caring and understanding adult. Kevin cared so much about me that he took his free time to come to my middle school and mentor me. Kevin gives me support and encourages me to do good in school and to follow my dreams and goals. I have learned a lot from Kevin. One thing I learned was to NEVER give up! I will always try my hardest, no matter what it is.

Thank You Kevin!

Ikia Daugherty, 13
Danville, KY

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I would not be where I am today without the help and guidance from him. He helped me accept change and get through some very tough times. He once told me that he has learned as much from me as I have from him. I am so glad he has been there for me and continues to be there. I hope everyone can find someone that looks out for them.

Ashley K., 17
Illinois

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Mr. Pryce Baldwin:

Our Mentor, who has given his time, without costing us a dime.
Some say nothing in life is free, but we don’t agree.
Visits to our school, to make sure everything was cool,
Recognition for A /A/B honor rolls, encouraging us to keep reaching for our goals,
Summer academy trips, teaching us how to do a golf club grip,
Outings to Adventure Landing
Realizing the playfulness of boys/toys with full understanding.
Sitting on the bleachers with some of our teachers,
Watching as we play our favorite sport, running up and down the basketball court.
Banquets, yes we were on the invite, feeding us nourishments to our delight,
Bus and train trips in and out of the state, giving us knowledge for a later date,
Supplying our minds with food we need, by giving us books to read.
Working diligently to find an elementary/high school mentor,
So our lives wouldn’t take a detour.
As this story unfolds, time won’t allow for all to be told,
We just want to say thanks a heap, the “Pryce” that you gave can never be called cheap.
And we both learned valuable lessons, Mr. Baldwin you’re one of our blessings.
The best things in life are free, for you have been there for my brother and me.
Please continue to remain soft spoken, and we ask that you accept this small token
As a gift of appreciation for your years of dedication.

Johgre and Keysheen H., 14
Raleigh, NC

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My mentor, Rachael, is not only a role model but also a true friend. I can always count on her when I need her. She's always someone I can talk to without worrying that she might tell everyone else. Rachael is funny and enthusiastic.

In some ways, Rachael is my rock. She listens when I need her to, she's a friend when I need advice, and she's a role model when I need someone to look up to. She's never judgmental and it's nice to be able to vent to someone without being criticized. Never have I ever second-guessed her as a friend. We share with each other our dreams, our hopes, our fears and our goals. Being a mentor is one thing; a lot of people can just volunteer once a week. Becoming a friend, a true friend that someone, another person, can count on when they need to, is a totally different thing. It's a huge accomplishment when you stop being a mentor and start being a friend. And that's exactly what Rachael is to me. My friend.

Samantha B., 15
Chicago, IL

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I will never forget Rita Barger. From eighth grade on, she has mentored me and challenged me to do my best at anything I try. She routinely stays late to help all of her students, and often puts aside research and preparation for major projects in order to be available. She encourages calls to her office to answer questions, as well. Rita is a wonderful person who exemplifies excellence in teaching and she should be held among the finest in the profession. I should know...I became a teacher because of her guidance and dedication to children and the future. I could only dream of being half as good as she is! Thank you, Rita!

Melynda Reeter
Mission, KS

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Bob Bridges was the first African American superintendent of the Wake County Public School System (WCPSS) when in 1987 he created the School/Community Helping Hands Project (HH). It is a mentoring project that provides adult African American males for African American (AA) boys in elementary and middle school. Though he has retired his imprint remains. Today HH has more than 45 mentors and 250 boys. His imprint was carried on by Bill McNeal, then an associate superintendent, and now the second AA superintendent of the WCPSS. These two men have been and continue to be mentors and role models for all of us who serve in HH. They continue to provide guidance, leadership and inspiration. WCPSS is one of the best school districts in America because these two giants care(d) and share(d).

Pryce Baldwin
Raleigh, NC

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My Father, Joseph Chaisson, who has been deceased since 1967, was my mentor and best friend. He taught what honesty, integrity, responsibility and reliability were all about and their value, to me and to others.

Raymond Chaisson
Little River, SC

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There is no true definition that encompasses the full significance of mentoring. To be mentored by an individual that one highly respects, admires and cherishes is invaluable. I am very fortunate to have found such a precious relationship, one that I will treasure and carry in my heart eternally. Mrs. Anne Cooper is not only vice-principal of our high school, but my teacher, my friend, my mentor, and my role model. As a current student of hers, she preaches not lessons from a curriculum, but lessons of life, teaching me every day to excel to my full potential. Mrs. Cooper’s accomplishments, both of professional and personal natures, are truly inspiring. The first female administrator of our school, and currently pursuing a doctorate degree, she inspires me in my professional goals in life. Yes, you really can achieve goals, turn dreams to realities. She is not just a mother of four children, but a mother to the entire student population of our school. As busy as her life now is, Mrs. Cooper never hesitates to give her time to me. Always there for support, comfort, encouragement, congratulations, to dry away tears, or to give a warm smile when it is truly needed, she never is selfish in personal motives. I am truly thankful to her and for her. Our relationship is unlike any other, and I know that it will not die out with time, but will only become stronger and last forever. Her words of wisdom, guidance and counsel have shaped who I am today, the child I have left behind and the woman that I am becoming. Thank you Mrs. Cooper. Thank you for your mentorship to me of time, understanding, courage and love. Thank you for all that has been said and done between us, and may we continue to grow together.

Victoria Schwarzl, 17
Port Sydney, Ontario

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I've known Mrs. Shirley for 4 years now. She is actually with a mentoring program for the scholarship I got in grade school. We met when i was in the 6th grade, now in the 9th, and she has made such an impact in my life.

From the first day i met her she had that vibe, ya know, i was so comfortable around her and she gave such a positive atmosphere. I knew I could pour out my soul to her. I finally had a friend to tell my deepest darkest hurts and feelings. At that time I was going through a rough time in my life and she helped me through it. She was there with a smile on her face, ready to fight any battle i had, with me. She's helped me grow so strong in Christ, in education, in really...everything. I seriously can not name any one thing she had helped me with because she's helped me with sooo much! Now she is like my best friend. We do so much together. I go to church with her, we go out to eat, the mall, and i even go to work with her sometimes. She is the best thing that God has ever blessed my life with, and i thank him everyday for her. And I want to thank her for just being the loving kind person she is! I don't know where my life would be now without her with me through my struggles. And any person who ever gets a chance to talk with this wonderful person is lucky. She's not just a mentor to me...but to everyone she comes in contact with!

Ashley Walker, 15
Valrico, FL

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January 15, 2004, do you get what is that day? It was a trick question. January 15th it was a Mentor Day. The person that I wanted to say "Thank You" to is my ESL teacher. Her name is Susan Domsalla. I was come to America in 2001. I started in 4th grade at Jefferson Elementary School. A lot of teachers were helping me, but Ms. Domsalla is the person that gave me everything. She bought a lot of books to help me learn English. She teach me a lot of English and helping me with my homework that I don't understand. Now she is retired but I wanted to say "thank you" to her a lot of times.

Dung (Joe) D., 15
Clinton, IA

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MY MOM : )

Need I say any more!

Diana L.
Hackettstown, NJ

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I was fortunate enough to have been assigned Mr. William Eberle as a mentor when I was a participant in the VISN 18 Leadership Development Institute. Bill and I shared numerous conversations, but I believe I learned more by listening to his counsel and advice. I also learned a great deal through observation of his comportment in private as well as in public settings. What I observed is that there was no difference in behavior, attitude or mode of living based on situational changes.

The message I took from that observation is:

One’s action(s) when no one is watching proves the quality of his or her character.

The value of the mentoring process did not fully materialize until the leadership-training program was over and I was back in the reality of the day-to-day situations that arise in the workplace and in life.

From my mentor I have learned that being trustworthy adds the richness of other people who value your confidence and ability to discuss issues of importance or the smallest details of trivial matters freely - as discussions between best friends. Trustworthiness goes beyond doing what is expected and going the extra mile to achieve personal selfless goals and to help others succeed.

Being loyal provides opportunities to develop long-lasting friendships with those depending on you as a leader, your colleagues and subordinates. Bill stressed the importance of loyalty as a characteristic many successful and influential leaders value when they look for capable staff members who are reliable in the most critical circumstances.

Commitment to excellence in matters great and small shows you care. You care not only about yourself. You care about the place you live – your home, your city, your country and this world. You can and will do something, anything to make it better.

Mark Salcido
Tucson, AZ

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I feel my mentor has done an excellent job of keeping me on task. She provides constant reminders about upcoming dates and events in our weekly meetings. I must commend my mentor for her efforts in smoothing out the rough edges in me and for ideas and suggestions in helping me to better teach my students and to be the best I can possibly be.

Frances U.
Concord, NC

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Thanks a lot for helping me in every one of my projects brought to you, especially in my college essays. Thanks a lot for every lecture you have explained to me. You have impacted some knowledge into me and that has really influenced me to know who I am and what I am capable of doing.
Appreciate you a lot.
Thanks
Love you. You are a great Mentor.

Oluwatosin Tolulope Adedipe
Columbus, OH

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Although I have thanked Kim Franklin many times, I wanted to make sure she knows how awesome I think she is. I considered posting something next year, as a senior, but thought its meaning might be reduced amongst the countless other seniors being forced to thank SOMEONE. That's not the case with me, so I decided not to wait...

Since I was in 8th grade, Kim has been the most inspiring and encouraging person I know. Even as a youngin', I like to think I've figured some things out...one being the importance of relationships. From what I can tell, a lot of the great things in life come from the simple things like connections between people. When I think about what makes me happy, I realize most of it is interacting with the positive and genuine people in my life. Kim is definitely one.

Kim has been a great math teacher, music fan, tutor, running buddy, tennis coach, mentor, confidant, and friend to me. She brings a mix of humor and insight into every situation. I can go to her for advice, help with math or anything else, and the coolest thing: for fun. I love hanging out with her because she's inspiring and fun at the same time...and definitely my mentor. THANK YOU!

Kelsey Pullar, 16
Deming, WA

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I met Debbie when I was in seventh grade. She was in tenth grade. She was gorgeous, and she sang and acted very well. I was scared of bullies in school, but she chased them away. She showed me the ropes in school. She was there during the tough times and helped me through a lot of problems. I trusted her more than anyone. She was the first person I told about the night that I drank. She knew what I did was wrong, and she wasn't mad and didn't criticize me for being hysterical. Debbie has shown me how to wear my hair, and how to match my clothes. She also writes back on time. Although they say no one is perfect, Debbie is in my eyes. Thanks for everything!

Taylor King, 14
West Roxbury, MA

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My classmates at North High saw him as a crusty old science teacher who told war stories and gave tough tests. To me Mr. G. held an emotional safely net. He let me come to his lab: at noon, before or after school. At sixteen I fought with my parents, missed my old school and couldn’t find friends at my new school. I thought my life was deeper and lonelier than Death Valley. Mr. G. didn’t lecture me, though he teased me about my goofy boyfriends, noticed my hard earned weight loss, made me laugh, let me cry. The only advice I remember from him was: “In ten years you won’t remember this.” I sorted his transistors, played with his equipment and ate my lunch while reading Science magazine. He gave me an adult to trust and a “place to be.” He kept me sane, he let me grow.

Pit L.
Phoenix, AZ

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I was alone, scared, and more than a little angry. Here i was, after almost 10 years of being homeschooled, about to be stuck in a private school. I knew no one, had no one to go to, and hated the circumstances spinning out of control around me.

But my piano teacher thought she no longer could teach me anymore because here i was going to a private school - [she] gave me her email address, and i started to write to her almost every week. We talked about life, and about how i felt with everything that was happening. pretty soon my weekly emails turned into daily emails, and every day i would come home from school, and rush to my computer, where i would read what she had said in answer to my thoughts, questions, and feelings. i went through many things in the year 2003 that changed me and made me see things differently. i don't think i could have made it through sanely without my piano teacher. looking back, it surprises me how much she affected me. i don't think she knows, but she is such a great person, a mentor to me, and someone i look up to and totally appreciate.

Pyper T., 15
Seatac, WA

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Besides my mother, I would have to say the single, most influential person in my life has been my grandmother, Frances Hackett. As I think back over all of the trials and tribulation I have had to overcome in my life, I cannot think of one time when her words of wisdom have not guided me or her love has not comforted me. My grandmother has worn many hats during her lifetime. She has been married for over fifty years, raised four children, retired as a licensed nurse, and has always been an accomplished gospel pianist. Her energy and enthusiasm for life has always amazed me.

I, like a lot of children, had very loving parents, who also had very demanding careers. So when I was not at home or in school, I was at my second home---my grandparents’ house. At their home, a majority of my time was spent shadowing my grandmother’s every move---and move we did! We were always sewing, painting, building, learning and dreaming. You could always find us by following the path of destruction throughout the house.

My grandmother grew up during the Depression and still remembers receiving electricity. However, her hardships and age have never made her bitter or any less of an independent thinker. She has always had a way of seeing the best in everyone and making the best out of a bad situation. With my grandmother, creativity was encouraged, follow-through was rewarded, honesty was expected, and kindness was just a way of life. As a child, and now as an adult, I realize just how ahead of her time she has always been. The example my grandmother has demonstrated with her life guided me as a child and now as an adult.

Charity H.
Dermott, AR

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DEAR LAURA,

IT'S ME, KINARA, WANTING TO THANK YOU FOR BEING A BIG SISTER TO ME. IT'S BEEN FUN GOING PLACES WITH YOU AND I HOPE WE GO MORE PLACES TOGETHER. WELL, THAT'S ABOUT EVERYTHING THAT I HAVE TO SAY.

BYE AND THANK YOU FOR BEING A BIG SISTER TO ME.

Kinara Wallace, 12
South Miami, FL

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My mentor Ann is one of the best people in the world. I may have only known her for a small amount of time but she is so fun to be around. Not only that, did I forget to tell you she has the coolest job, Funeral Director. Some people may think that kind of job is scary or gross, but it is just like a doctor. Take a good look at the word Funeral. The first three letters spell FUN. Also if you rearrange the last letters and you get this ERAL=Real. Get it Real Fun, Funeral. What I'm trying to get at is it doesn't matter what job they have; it's how they help you and teach you things, plus it helps if they're REAL FUN. I think you get the picture!

Regina Harris, 13
Danville, KY

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I learned a lot about the business world with Curtis. But while I did I had fun also! I know what it's like to have to go to meetings and have to be on time for work. I got to see what it is like when you have a schedule and have to stick to it. I loved being able to experience the work world. I know what I'm in for when I am older.

Andrea P., 13
Danville, KY

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The best thing about a mentor is having somebody to help you learn how to read and do better with math and reading. My mentor is nice, kind, helpful, generous, and pretty. I like to have a mentor because it's fun and she helps me learn how to read and understand math better. Having a mentor is fun because when you learn how to read you can do better in class.

Natasha M., 9
Wilmington, DE

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Professor David Hessler mentored me at the University of Michigan from 1990 - 92. He taught me how to be and why I should be a library leader. He taught me the meaning of creative management and how to care for my employees and myself. He also taught me how to make myself marketable in a variety of library environments. Because of Dr. Hessler, I believe, I have succeeded as a professional librarian for more than 11 years. To him I want to say THANK YOU!

Katherine Kelly
Washington, DC

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My mentor is Vy Higgensen of the Moma Foundation located on 126th Street in Harlem. She wrote the play, "Mama I Want to Sing" and recently had a 20 year anniversary of the play over the past two months.

She became my mentor early this year, and has inspired me to do many things in the entertainment field. My desire is to become a choreographer, and Ms. Higgensen has helped me tremendously in this effort as well as in my studies. My future plan is to go to college for business administration and work toward a study in the arts.

We meet basically every Saturday for rehearsals and mentoring. I have engaged in many back stage chores and have met many gospel groups and entertainers in the musical arts. She has also offered me an opportunity to be tutored in my studies whenever I need it. She stated that an education is the key to everything that my heart desires.

Ms. Higgensen has inspired me to know that I can do anything that I want to do, but be aware of all the components involved. That being in the theater is hard work but the end result is the most gratifying thing that I will ever experience.

Through her encouragement, I also have become interested in participating in the debate team at my school, and have won a couple of them. One opportunity that I had in winning the debate was to have dinner at the Harvard Club in New York City with one of the directors from the television show, "Law and Order," and from that I was offered an internship with them starting in January.

Had I not been exposed to the theater through the Mentoring Program at the Greater Zion Hill Community Action Network where I was paired with Ms. Higgensen, I don't think that I would have been able to accomplish all that I have and still been able to maintain my grade average.

I thank my mentor, Ms. Higgensen, and all those people that were integral in helping me accomplish my goals.

Tina Paige, 16
New York, NY

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My aunt was my first mentor besides my parents. She introduced me to live theater and music by taking me to performances in New York City. I have a love for live theater and performance that has never left me. Aunt Eleanor was a pioneer. She was one the first stalwarts that went skiing in NH, climbing the mountain before there were chair lifts. She had a career. She has a wonderful sense of humor. She has always volunteered in her community and with her church. Aunt Eleanor was a role model for me and helped me be a pioneer in my career field and to be a lifelong volunteer. She was 89 on December 31, 2003. She volunteers in a local school in Florida.

Dorothy Grannell
Portland, ME

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When I was in first [through] third grade I had difficulty reading, according to my Catholic school teachers. Back then the special education program was a pull-out class at the public school two blocks down the street. Each day, rain or shine, I'd head out for the walk to Franklin Elementary for my special education class.

My Sp. Ed. teacher was Cindy Jefferies and she made it worth the walk. I look back now and realize she was very young when she worked with us, but she had a real sense of what might make a difference for her students.

Cindy made a real effort to write my name in beautiful script. I was unhappy with what I thought was an ugly name, Margaret. Cindy made me feel like my name was pretty. And therefore, I might be pretty and if I was pretty I might be smart too. It was kid logic.

It was more than just writing my name though. Cindy seemed to know that I needed more work on my self-esteem than I did on my reading. She worked with me and gave me the confidence to read out loud in front of my class.

In fourth grade I began attending Franklin Elementary. I was tested for reading and was placed in the second highest reading level in the class. I was then and am now a voracious reader.

With Cindy's help I learned to be a confident reader too. I doubt that I really ever had a reading problem, but I know I had real difficulty reading out loud because I was scared to be made fun of by fellow students. By caring about me and listening to me, Cindy helped me feel like I was worth listening to. When you feel like you are worth being listened to, it is easy to speak up.

Meg Smith
Graham, WA

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Jim taught me about balancing a personal life with work, placing great weight on time with family and friends. Jim pushed me to explore my career interests and to continue my education while still focusing on family, friends and fun. Jim to this day makes me feel as though he is just around the corner if I need a friend and mentor. Jim passes along his expertise and knowledge wrapped in great integrity and with a constant challenge to be ethical and kind. I receive a gift each time Jim calls and will always give thanks for his time, leadership and for sharing his positive attitude that makes a difference in my world each and every day. Thanks, Jim!

Katharine LaForest
Anchorage, AK

My mentor's name is Sheila. I know she should deserve a tribute for being a great mentor, because she has always been there for me. Whenever I needed her and even now any time I need her she is always there for me. She has also guided me through things in life for the last three years.

No matter what, my mentor is a very good and nice person. I appreciate every moment I have and spend with her, she is a person whom you can trust and let your feelings out to. She really works hard to help me with any problems that I have.

Even when I get mad or angry, Sheila always finds a way to make me happy and laugh. She is the best in the whole wide world. Sheila is perfect.

Jessica A., 13
Chicago, IL

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Dear Mrs. Kalain,

Thank you so much for coming in every day of the month you can. When you come in the door it fills my heart with love and joy. I'm so happy i have a mentor like you. You have a nice sense of humor. I've never had this much fun with a person.

Nichole Blanchard, 10
Orleans, VT

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This is to thank ALL of my Kids Hope USA mentors who volunteer their time each week to spend with a special friend in a local elementary school. These tutors have developed consistent relationships with the children that is not always common in their homes. They play games and help with schoolwork or just listen when they need to! Thank you to everyone at Calvin CRC who is a mentor or a prayer partner in this program.

Kim B.
Holland, MI

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Judy was a woman who lived across the street and was my mother's best friend. Back when I grew up in Connecticut, borrowing sugar and knowing your neighbors' every happening was still in vogue. Little did we know that where family was unavailable, neighbors became our support system. I spent many a summer in my young life babysitting for Judy's three children and as I grew up into a young adult, the relationship that we shared became more of someone I could talk to and confide in. Judy went through many a trial and tribulation in our household and often offered a quiet place to talk. Judy's house was less volatile and no matter how bad life seemed to me, Judy accepted and encouraged me to accept myself and be proud of who I was. Shortly after my mother passed away and I was 23, Judy and I sat and had a glass of wine and her advice to me was to "go start your life, your mother would never have wanted you to stay here trying to take her place in taking care of your father." I married and moved 1200 miles away. I've become a successful business woman. I'm hopefully raising my children to be proud of who they are and for all Judy's patience, understanding and friendship, I say, "Thank you."

U.G.
Ruskin, FL

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Do you know Mr. Bill? No? Well, you will wish you did after you hear what an amazing person he is to be around.

Mr. Bill is a fun person to be around. He plays kickball with me. He comes during the lunch and recess period. He kicks far and he is a good catcher. He is also fun because he takes me on the nature trail with a friend. Another thing is that he plays games with me. We have a great time playing two-hand touch and even just catching the football. The last thing I am going to say is that we would play a game of one on one game of kickball. That is awesome, it is also why he is a fun mentor.

The second thing I’m going to talk about is that he is dependable. He is always here unless he is sick or unless he has to go to a meeting. So I can always depend on him to come. I really look forward to him coming and I know he will be there when he can. He will never break a promise even if he tells me he will get me a present. That’s why it’s great to have dependable person like Mr. Bill for my mentor.

The next thing I am going to tell you about is how he has taught me some of the many things Mr. Bill knows. When I was in third grade he taught me how to golf. It was fun because he taught me how to play games on disks that I did not know how to play. It was also fun. The last thing is that he teaches me jokes that are funny. It’s nice to have him take the time to teach me things that I’m interested in.

The last thing is that he is so generous because he brings me presents that I don’t open until Christmas. He brings games that he knows I will play, because he knows what I like. The last thing is that he brings me food from Wendy’s and sometimes McDonalds. I really appreciate that because the food at school isn’t so great!

I just want to thank Mr. Bill for being so caring, generous and fun. He shows me how to be a better person and I learn a lot from him. He is the best mentor there could ever be. I can’t wait for Tuesday because that is the day my mentor Mr. Bill comes to school. He is one of the most caring, generous, and fun person I know.

James Elvey, 10
Newark, DE

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There is a person that is helping me with my homeworks and improve, to help me to learn English when I came to 6th grade at Washington Middle School. His name is Alan Lorenz. I don't know how to say it right now, I want to give him a 1,000 or more the two word is "thank you." I didn't really know English when I was a 6th grader, just a little bit, because I was came from Vietnam. Now my English is better and always get on High Honor Roll. If don't have Mr. Lorenz I won’t get that high to be on High Honor Roll and good in everything. Sometime I have a lot of homework over weekend that I don't understand. Mr. Lorenz always be here to help me. January 15, 2004 is Mentor Day. I wanted to "thank you" to Mr. and Mrs. Lorenz for helping me. If I don't have Mr. and Mrs. Lorenz, it won't have me on High Honor Roll today. "Thank you" again Mr. and Mrs. Lorenz.

Dung (Joe) D., 15
Clinton, IA

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I really like meeting with my mentor for many reasons. She’s helpful, kind, she likes sports, and we like lots of the same things. We play games, we work on my schoolwork, and we have a good time. She helps me with whatever I need. This means a lot to me and I appreciate her because she helps me with so many things, and I know she doesn’t have to. I know she likes to play me in Checkers and Connect Four, even though I always win.

Tiffany H., 11
Claymont, DE

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We all knew 'Miss Lugi' liked us. It was evident in her manner, and she attended all school events. She taught us Solid Geometry and Trig among other courses at Columbia High, Cola, SC.

She was not one to gloss over our errors, but that made it all the more enjoyable when she made an error on the board and we would all rush to inform her of her error. It seemed that once every week or two there were lapses in her basic math skills.

Only after several years of college did it dawn on me that her errors were not lapses -- they were 'planted errors' to see if we were attentive. One day I realized that we had been had by a teacher who was willing to appear fallible in order to keep her students alert.

Thanks to 'Miss Lugi' from me for myself and for a lot of students who never knew they had been 'had' for their own betterment.

Harry Edwards
Bartow, FL

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I would like to make a special tribute to my mentor, Lynne McMaine. She is a special veterinarian at American Animal Hospital or Sud's n Scissors to bring your animals and get them groomed. Anyway I'd like to thank her for giving her time to come and share with me things that veterinarians and the assistants do. I learned a lot and it made me want to become a vet or vet assistant in the future. As well as her helping me along as much as she can if she likes.

Thank You So Much.

Riona W., 14
Danville, KY

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Why I like having a mentor...

1. We have fun reading.
2. I’m learning how to read better and it makes me remember what I read.
3. Mr. McNair is friendly, funny and likes to wear ties.
4. He likes to help kids with reading and math
5. He would be a good teacher.

Ignacio J., 9
Wilmington, DE

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My tribute goes out to Mrs. Moore. She was my People Helping People and Health teacher when I was in High School. Throughout the rest of my Junior and Senior year in High School, she helped me through the most toughest times in my life! When I was 17 and 18, I had a really hard time with school work, getting essays in on time, and actually DOING the work. She told me that I was such a talented individual, with my ambitions in my life. I never forgot her. I miss her. On my graduation day...I felt proud to walk up on that stage and receive my diploma. At the end of the ceremony, she was at the end of the steps, and I walked over to her, and as I walked over to her, she whispered the words "You did it!" My eyes began to tear up, and as I hugged her, she said she was so proud of me, and I told her "I wouldn't have been able to do it without you." And she said, "Yes you did." From there on, we both had tears running down our cheeks, and that was the end of that.

I went back to my old High School once, saw her again...but after that, I found out she had moved, and she had a baby:) I'm so happy for her and would love to be reunited with her just one more time:) I loved her, and miss her dearly.

Heidi Searls
Cortland, NY

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Jose Morales was a Puerto Rican Studies professor at Rutgers University. He was a student favorite due to his teaching manner where he explained complex concepts using humor and contemporary analogies. His classes inspired discussion and thought. As a Latina, it was so important for me to see a Latino in the world of academia. Almost every Latino student in the university took his courses and came to him for guidance and advice. He was determined to help us graduate and succeed no matter what, constantly reminding us about his own upbringing in Puerto Rico and the South Bronx during the 50's and 60's. He gave the courage to try for an Ivy league graduate school and supported me as I went through the first year of culture shock at Columbia. We speak once a year now and he is proud on what I have accomplished. And I am blessed to have him in my life. If anyone attends Jersey City State University...take his courses!

Sophia P.
New York, NY

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Thank you, Thank you and again thank you. You have changed my life in so many ways that you will never understand. Not only are u my teacher and "mentor" but a role model and good person. You have taught me to have confidence in myself and to always strive for the best. Because of u i know that no matter what happens to me i should always follow my dreams. Everything about you is so amazing. First you were one of if not the best teacher i have ever had and have taught me so much not only in class but all through these last three years. Everything that you do you do to help others, not yourself. You teach lessons without knowing it and give people especially me the confidence i need. You gave your life to teaching when there were so many other opportunities for u... And if u hadn't then in no way would i or anyone you have met through your teaching be the same.

These last thee years you have guided me through some rough and trying times, you put a smile on my face and a laugh in my day. You have taught me not only to believe but to have self respect. Also you taught me to stand up for what i believe in. If i had a bad teacher you helped me through it...U did everything in your power and more to make my life better even if it made yours harder. I now know that if i don't get what i want then i can make the best out of it and that even if that was to happen to not give up for life is too precious. I thank you for using your extras time to make my day better and help me...u knew i needed u. In all ways that u have changed my life...From a teacher to a director to the world overseer, to a "counselor" to a friend i thank you for it all...I owe my life to you and hope one day to be as great as u. ARRRR matey!

Audrey D., 14
Cockeysville, MD

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In 1992 I began my employment with the State of Florida. From that first day on the job, I found the one person who seemed to have all the answers, Bob Norring. Our positions required we have knowledge of our state's statutes regarding taxes. Whenever I had a difficult question from an inquiring caller, I took it to Bob. He would not just answer the question at hand, but would point me in the right direction for finding the answer.

Through the years, Bob was always there to encourage and instruct. He is like a walking book of knowledge and very willingly shares with anyone who asks. Because of Bob's caring and sharing, I now have a career with the State of Florida, doing the one thing I do best, teaching others about the tax laws of our State. You see, Bob was my mentor who taught me all I needed to know about sharing with others our tax laws. He encouraged my growth and understanding. When the position became available to be a part of the Taxpayer Education program of our state, Bob encouraged me to apply. I am now in that educating position and I owe it all to my mentor, Bob Norring. This world would be a better place if we had more people like Bob who would be willing to give of themselves to help others along the way. "THANK YOU, BOB."

Fredrica C.
Fort Myers, FL

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My other mentor, my grandma Tillie…. Ahhhh, now here's a lady that was FULL of spunk. As I understand it, she didn't have it too easy when she and my grandpa (who we called "Poppo") were raising their two children. In addition to normal stresses of raising a family in the 40's and 50's, she had the additional worry of raising a daughter with a defective heart (my mom was born with a damaged valve and three holes in her heart). My grandma took on a lot of odd jobs to help out with expenses (such as staying up all night typing and stuffing envelopes for various businesses, etc). However, when I was born and she became a part of my life, I never would have guessed she had traveled a rough road - she was always loving and positive. She made friends everywhere she went. She always had a kind word, funny anecdote and sparkle in her eye. She taught me to laugh often and love much. She passed away in 1989 and I miss her terribly. I wish my husband and daughter would have had the chance to meet her - she was an incredible lady who always left a smile and a lasting impression wherever she went. It's no wonder that yet another mentor in my life, my mother, has such a loving heart. My mom has helped me so much and unselfishly during rough times in my life - after all, she had a very wonderful example to follow!

Annie Bruner
Omaha, NE

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To my father and mother, my first mentors. They both showed me how to use my talents and skills, how to give and receive love; how important it is to love God and family so that you can give love to someone else.

My father and mother attended every baseball game that my brother and I participated in during junior minor, minor, little and pony league ball. They came to football games and track meets wherever they were. They taught my older brother (a dentist) and my younger sister (a clinical psychologist) that helping others is a part of life. Dad purchased a left handed baseball glove so that we could practice pitching in our backyard, and the ping pong tournaments were classic battles among all of us.

We went on vacation together for as long as I can remember, returning to see family in Alabama and Ohio to stay in touch with those who raised us through them. They gave us the values by which we live today, made the Nguzu Saba meaningful before we knew what it was, and taught us to never give up.

My father and mother, a practicing dentist and assistant respectively, have been married more than 50 years, and have worked together almost ever day of that time in his dental practice. Thank you, mom and dad, for being my first and best mentors!

Gregory Owens
Albany, NY

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THANK YOU MS.PETRIE.

MS.PETRIE IS MY HERO BECAUSE SHE TEACHED ME HOW TO WRITE, READ AND ADD. SHE WAS MY KINDERGARTEN TEACHER. SHE WAS A FUN TEACHER. MY CLASS WAS KB20E. IF I NEVER HAD MS.PETRIE FOR A TEACHER, I WOULDN'T HAVE LEARNED HOW TO WRITE AND ADD. I LEARNED MANY THINGS IN KINDERGARTEN. I AM ON 3RD GRADE NOW AND I THINK.......MS. PETRIE IS ONE OF THE BEST TEACHERS IN THE WORLD.

Juan Diaz, 8
Brooklyn, NY

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I wanted to thank my French teacher with all my heart for everything she has done for me. Things that can not be seen, but rather felt. I wanted to thank her for opening my eyes to the world and realizing things. Things such as that your mother and your father are your only true friends who will be there for you through sickness and health, happiness and sorrow. Many people know that, however, it doesn't mean that they feel that way. She made me appreciate the beauty of different countries, cultures, and people. Before I met Mrs. Marat, I was a wild and out of control crazy girl. In her classroom, like in all the classrooms, I misbehaved. I threw books, papers, pens and other objects across the room. I talked all the time, passed notes, got up from my seat whenever I pleased, and I refused not only to do my homework and classwork but I paid no attention not only in her class but other classes as well. I received detentions everyday. However, thanks to those detentions I got the opportunity to get to know her and understand things. In the end I started coming to her for advice, help, and comfort. It felt nice to talk to an adult who taught me things about this country and its people since I am an immigrant from another country with no relatives to talk to except my mom. My grades improved, my behavior improved tremendously, and so did my outlook on life. Because of such a wonderful and warm-hearted person I became more controlled, calm, content, nice, and carefree. Because of what she did for me, I now try to help other people who need to be comforted, helped out or just simply heard out. Thank you Mrs. Marat for helping me become a better person and putting me on the right track of life. I couldn't have done it without you.

Elena, 15
New Providence, NJ

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My mentor, Lucy, has cared for me as if I were a little flower. With her I started a great adventure. I was only 5 years old! It was an exciting morning when I first met her, in August of 1999 at the Horizons for Youth back to school picnic.

Lucy is a young Mexican lady who loves children. I feel very fortunate to have a person like her with me on all of the Horizons outings. Now I'm in third grade and she has always been very attentive to what goes on day by day in my school life, family and with my friends.

I admire Lucy a lot. When I grow up I want to be just like her! She gets to travel a lot and that's very exciting.

We have shared a great history and great moments, talking and playing together. Our nicknames for each other are Curly Girl (Lucy) and Rainbow Girl (me). We are now more than just friends, I have picked her to be my godmother for my first communion! Now she's someone even more special and important in my life. I know we will be friends forever!

Brittany V., 8
Chicago, IL

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I write this tribute to a person who has made me re-evaluate who I am. By showing me a more simple way of life, she has shown me not only love and assistance, she has opened up a world of doors that go anywhere...absolutely anywhere.

She has made me more mindful, thoughtful, and reflective with every single hour we interact. I am more adventuresome, outgoing, and in the best shape of my life. I owe it all to myself, of course...I did it all for me. But she pushed me out the door. She took the first step with me. Now I'm running. Running along side of her.

John Peterson
Tacoma, WA

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"We make a living by what we get, but we make a life by what we give." There are no truer words than the words of Winston Churchill. The time you gave at the Point Breeze Family Center has made a difference in the lives of the children in the Reading Stars program. The Point Breeze Family Center Staff and the children of the Peacemakers after school program at McDaniel Elementary School would like to thank each and every one of you for giving of your self unselfishly. Tammy Attama from Philadelphia Cares. Temple University students Meghan Barnes, Christa Bryant, Felicia Christman, Katie Gondell, Michelle Greco, Johnathan Harris, Joe Heidenwolf, Chris Lux, Beth Marciano, Teri Pierce, Alison Scott, Elizabeth Scott, Michelle Strobel, Michael Sylvester, Melissa Thomas, Laura Williams and especially Temple University Professor Michael Dorn.

Beverly Bryant
Philadelphia, PA

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Mr. Rhoades is 66 years old. He has mentored a young man named BJ for over 2 years through the Friends of Youth Program of Communities In Schools of Wilkes. Not only does Joe spend time with BJ but he helps CIS in all types of situations. When CIS needed furniture for a fun room for the children of CIS, Joe donated a whole room full of furniture, everything! The Friends Of Youth has planned activities for the children each month, Joe and BJ are always there helping. Beginning in January, one evening per month Joe will give free art lessons for the children of CIS. Joe volunteers in other capacities as well. He has helped in the cleanup of Isabel in Eastern North Carolina, going down on a Thursday and staying until late Saturday night, cutting trees, or whatever the need. He has taught Sunday School at his church, as well as helped with RA's (a young boy's club). He is a mentor to his own grandchildren. He is always taking them hiking or bike riding.

As the coordinator for the Friends of Youth Program, I can truly state that Joe is a mentor to me as well. He is forever stopping by my office to see me, to inquire what is taking place next, to see if I need any help, and just to lend an encouraging word! Without knowing it, Joe Rhoades has become my mentor!

Glendora Chipman
Wilkesboro, NC

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According to Webster's Dictionary, a friend is "one attached to another by affection." To me, a friend means much more. A friend is a person who is trustworthy, a person who is kind and helpful. A close friend is very hard to find but luckily I found one in Melissa.

Melissa is not only my friend but she is also my mentor at Horizons for Youth. We have known each other for over nine years and as each year has progressed our friendship has as well. Now that I am older I feel that Melissa and I have a very strong relationship. We are able to talk maturely and seriously about important topics.

Throughout my many years of life I have talked to her about all of my friends, family, thoughts, and feelings. Without Melissa I don't really know what I would do. She is a great person that has always been there for me when I needed her the most. I am very grateful and I know that we will continue our friendship for many years to come!

Lisa M., 15
Chicago, IL

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While many people have encouraged me, shown me the ropes and helped me to become the person I am today, my main "mentors" would be my parents and my grandma Tillie. My dad was a very thorough, ethical businessman. When we were growing up, there was one phrase that he said often: "Do your best… plus a little bit more." I have always admired his intelligence and thoroughness in everything he does. Whenever I didn't know the answer to something, I always turned to him (and often still do!). He is also a Deacon in the Catholic Church and has had a strong influence on the faith I have today.

During the past twenty-five years, he has been a man of service supported by a wonderful lady, my mom. Dad had his family, his job, his community and the church to serve. How he managed to do so much is hard for me to comprehend; yet he has been successful at serving all of them. I have learned, through both my parents' examples, that if we choose to serve God first and foremost, we choose to serve everyone -- because God is everywhere. Sure, it is not easy to find God in some folks or some situations, but we are serving God simply by finding Him in what sometimes seem to be impossible situations. My dad also taught me that through prayer, anything can happen.

My mother started out in this world with a defective heart, but that is in the medical sense only! She has the most beautiful, unselfish heart of anyone you'll meet. Her love is unconditional and unique in its childlike qualities: innocent, pure and uncomplicated. Being a part of my family is a constant reminder of God's love for us all.

Annie Bruner
Omaha, NE

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Wow. I'm told to "please limit to 300 words." I'm trying to figure out how I'm going to go about thanking him in 300 words or less...well, let's see...how about another poem?

do you see what I see
standing, the mystery man
right in front of me?
do you hear what I hear
screaming, yelling,
right into my ear?
there's a mystery man
knowing what I can't
but you can
so what does the man do?
he tells you what I feel...
he's saying "Thank you"...

Alexandra P., 13
Hampton, IA

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This is a note that I’ve been meaning to write for quite some time.

Mrs. Sauter was one of my brownie troop leaders back in the 70’s. I grew up down the street and spent many afternoons playing with her daughter in her backyard. My childhood was difficult but her gentle guidance and kindness meant the world to me back then.

Every Christmas I hear “Silver Bells” and remember the songs she taught us to sing, and on Valentine’s Day I remember singing “Let Me Call You Sweetheart” to some elderly folks. She encouraged my love of music and to remember what brownies/girl scouts were all about: service and community. This idea has stayed with me all my life and has encouraged me to get involved.

I’m married and have two daughters (Madison and Erica). This is Madison’s first year as a brownie and I hope to be involved in scouting with both of my girls for years to come.

Mrs. Sauter made a difference in my life. Thank you!

Diane Heggen
Sherman Oaks, CA

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Thank you so much for always being good for a laugh even when you may have had a bad day. Thank you for being such an outstanding teacher and really having fun with what you do. I always loved coming to your class and I know that most of your students feel the same. Words cannot explain how much you have inspired me. I hope one day I can be an outstanding teacher just as you are and really touch the lives of people just as you have. You taught me so much and I wanted to thank you for it.

Cortney K.
Wilson, NY

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"Welcome to our school," the principal told me. "We are happy to have you as part of our family. Since it is your first year teaching, we'll be providing you with a mentor--Carmen Scott." I knew of Mrs. Scott. She had a no-nonsense reputation. She was a tall, slender, and beautiful woman, who was so strict, it scared even me. Before school even started, we arranged a meeting to talk about how I should get prepared. She closed the door to her classroom, so that no one could come in and interrupt us. What was this woman going to divulge? She handed me binders and stacks of paper and things that I still can't find today. She shared details of how she'd encountered success in her own classroom. She talked and talked. And I listened. As I nodded my head, I took in her wise suggestions. How I was going to remember it all? She seemed to have all the answers and I had all the questions.

The school year started before I was even ready. After each day, I would go into her room and explain the dramatic event that had happened that day. It was always something. Carmen always listened. One day, when I thought I had been knocked down so hard I wouldn't be able to get up, she told me, "Not one of those tears should be wasted on this." She was right. She reminded me to be strong. "Carmen's Strength" is always open. Just walk inside the classroom (close the door to avoid interruptions) and tell it. She'll be waiting, with plenty of support, advice, and, if you're lucky, she might give you some of her famous outrageous humor. She always listened -- and still does. It is only half-way through my first year. Carmen, I don't know what teaching would be like without a mentor like you. Your continuous presence and support is appreciated. I may not always be able to find what you've given me, but please know that I will always remember how you've made me a better person.

Rebecca T.
Round Rock, TX

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My mentor's name is Jennifer. She is one in a million and she is truly special to me. I've known her for close to 3 years now and it seems like I've known her all my life. She always knows what to say about certain things that she has learned in life. Knowing this information she makes it her business to see that she tells me everything that is vital in my life. She contributes to my education by sharing with me the knowledge that made her who she is today.

My mentor is very intelligent and has a lot to offer a young lady like me. She is the light in my long destiny. She is a wonderful person and I am blessed to have known her for as long as I did. Many kids don't get the opportunity to have someone in their life like Jen. My mentor and I have a tight relationship and I hope that we continue. She makes me happy each time we meet. My week becomes brighter once I see her on Tuesday. She gives me the strength to carry on my life in lady-like and intelligent ways. Jen is a wonderful person and has been a wonderful influence in my life. She will forever be remembered in my life from this day forward.

Lisa W., 15
Chicago, IL

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Sonya...I have a lot of things to tell you right now to say thank you for coming out of your busy time and seeing me and teaching me all of these thing that I needed to learn about jobs and what you have to go through for helping me. I hope that you had a good christmas break. I did, it was great. Well I just wanted to give you this and say Thanks Sonya.

LaSaharah Hamilton, 13
Danville, KY

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I am sending out a "Thank You" to my Mother, Marsha, for being there for me my whole life. She has never let me down and is a great Mother. She's #1 in my life. I love her with all my heart. I look up to her as my role model because after all she has been through, she is still strong as she ever was! My brother and I are so lucky to have her as our mother! I want to be just like her when I am her age and the rest of my life. I love you, Mom!

Sue-Anne S., 17
Indianapolis, IN

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If I could tell Andy Sorensen, or “Soro”, how much he’s meant to me, I would. However, Soro died of a heart attack at age 32 just before my senior year of college. As a self-proclaimed “band nerd” in high school and a music major prepping for her senior recital that year, his death was heartbreaking. Soro started his position as the Blair High School Band Director in 1991. By the time I graduated in 1996, Blair’s band program was very well known throughout the state, and our band numbered close to 200—impressive for a school of about 700 to 800. Our senior year we sent 15 students to All-State, and about that same number to almost all the other honor bands we auditioned for. We also received a superior-plus rating at districts, and several soloists also received superiors.

But the honors and honor bands are really only part of the story. The reason we did so well was in large part because Soro inspired us. We principal players worked hard for ourselves and for him, and he pushed us to work hard. However, Soro was just as well-liked by the players who were not first or second chair, which is why there were 10 tubas my senior year, in addition to 20 flutes, 20 clarinets, and a percussion section that had so many players that many of them sat on the floor for a good chunk of rehearsal because there was nothing for them to play.

Soro always told me I could have been first chair all through school if I’d have practiced more. I really wish he could have attended my senior recital at college, so he could have seen what I’d finally accomplished, what first began through his influence. And I know I speak for my fellow band members in saying that we miss him greatly.

Amy Katt
Blair, NE

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Besides my mother, who is a model of the kind of person I wish to be, my boss, Tom, has encouraged me to pursue my dreams. He is always looking for ways I can do what I love within the framework of my job.

This week we went over what my goals are, and he made it into a list entitled "Beck's Future." He then typed up the list, gave me a copy and kept one for himself, so we can review it from time to time to see how I'm progressing.

Tom encouraged me and over half the associates at our office to take up mentoring a child within our local school system. This has truly been a rewarding experience for me. One I wouldn't have pursued had it not been for Tom's encouragement and his example. Tom has been mentoring the same child for over six years, and he just started mentoring another child.

On this very special day, I just wanted to say, "THANK YOU TOM!!!" How happy I am that you are a part of my life.

Beck P.
Middletown, DE

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This committee of volunteers has graciously donated its collective time and energy to mentor technicians in laboratory animal science who are learning to write articles for publication. Each member of the Tech Talk Editorial Committee has mentored at least one article through our process. I wish to say "Thank YOU" for offering your hand to guide, encourage, and inspire technicians, and volunteering your time unselfishly to share your experience.

Amy Ingraham
Ephrata, PA

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My name is Justin and I am 13 and live in Augusta, ME and I am in the 8th grade. I have had Bob and Deb as my mentors for a few years. They have helped me become more responsible and helpful to others. I like to spend time with them and do lots of stuff, but mostly just to hang out with them and play pool and ride snowmobiles is cool. I just want to thank you bob and deb for being there and helping me when things looked down and confusing for me, you're the greatest and I want everyone to know how special you both are.

Justin O., 13
Augusta, ME

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My story is a little bit different than some others posted here. First off I have several mentors. This tribute is to one who has no idea of her impact on my life.

I am an older adult who has been serving in the US military approaching retirement and still pondering what to do after military service.

Several years ago I met someone on the internet who took an active interest in me. Hardly knowing anything about me she sensed my strong will, "thick headed" and need to understand how things work.

It began when I strongly voiced my opinion (ok, I whined) of being frustrated with my computer crashing. I'm not sure if she knew what she was doing to me but this woman had high expectations of me and nurtured my eagerness to learn.

I would ask her why this or that was happening and she made me read. She tasked me with reading many websites, trying out different programs, quizzing me why this or that happened. Giving her the simple "well I don't know" was unacceptable. I read so much you'd think I'd taken speed reading.

To make a long story short, she made me see something in myself that even I had overlooked. Today, only days away from retirement I now know where my heart is and what I want to do with the rest of my life. My plan is to continue my education and teach computing to others.

So to a knowledgeable, demanding, out of control lady somewhere in Houston, Texas I say thank you for being a vital part of my life. Thank you for your inspiration, taking me under your wings, nurturing me, demanding what you knew I had within and allowing me to continue to drive you crazy.

Reggie T.
Las Vegas, NV

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My mother has been the most inspiring woman throughout my entire life. As a child, she showed me the world. As a teen, she gave me the freedom I needed to grow. As a young adult she showed me what it means to be in control of my own life, to mind my own business with love, and to respect others. As a middle aged woman, now, she gives me the respect and encouragement to know when time is the right time. She knows what it takes to succeed and she loves me and sees all my efforts. I am proud of my Mom and all she has been for me throughout my lifetime thus far. No one could ever replace her in my life, no matter how hard I tried to relieve her of her duties. THANK YOU MOM!!!!! Especially for giving me the courage to feel!

Tammy L. Major-Spencer
Jacksonville, FL

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My mother is my mentor. I suppose many people will say it was one of their parents who mentored them so I guess this isn't anything new. However, my mother was a rare breed. My mother married a wonderful man, a doctor, a real wonderful father, but he was an alcoholic. He kept losing his license to practice medicine so my family had to continually move to different towns where he could once again start a practice over. This was difficult on my mother, who had five children to nurture. When I was nine years old, he committed suicide. My mother was left with five children and no job. She did not lie down and die. She took a civil service exam and passed, thus allowing her to get a job working as a case worker for the Department of Social Services. She cared for the elderly and helped place them in nursing homes. She started the first Camp Fire Girls group in Pueblo, Colorado. She served on the board of the ACLU. She was a member of the League of Women Voters, not to mention a host of other volunteer activities in the community including walking the precincts for the democratic party and doing court reports for attorneys. Her greatest achievement, which she called her "Crowning Glory," was raising five children (one of whom was a diabetic) under difficult times and doing it well. My mother never gave up. In fact, she went above and beyond at all times in her home life and in the community. All five children went on to be strong, caring, loving and independent adults full of ambition and determination. She showed me strength of character and the meaning of faith. She now resides in heaven, but I know she can read these words. Thanks, Mom, for making the difference in my life.

Melanie Trondson
Florissant, CO

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It’s more then eleven years now since my mentor and I first met. I remember thinking if this match would really work and what this person would be able to offer me. At this point in my life I now realize everything my mentor offered me. She provided a shoulder to cry on, a listening ear, love, guidance and most importantly trust. I can speak to my mentor about anything and receive good advice; she is always playing “devil's advocate”. Sometimes I make the wrong decision, but she will always support me 110%. When the time comes to admit that I made a wrong decision she is still there to listen and not judge me. Our relationship has developed these past eleven years in an influential way. My mentor has had a huge impact on my life, so much that I decided to pursue a career in Youth Development. I currently work for Phoenix House Community Mentoring Program, as a Youth Development Coordinator servicing at-risk youth in the South Bronx community. I provide services that offer youths a chance to have a mentor!

“The apple didn’t fall far from the tree.”

This tribute goes out to my mentor, Naomi Weinstein. Although you are a wife, a mother and a successful career woman you always made time for me. I want to thank you for everything! I want you to realize that I appreciate you today, tomorrow and forever.

Yurema Torres
Brooklyn, NY

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This is a tribute to my 93-year-old mother-in-law.

Thank you for your abundance of patience in helping your son and I become established as a married couple. With your fresh attitude, your courage to overcome humongous obstacles, your willingness to show me how to have discipline even in the worst of circumstances. I have become a better person in the light of your family's love. You have taught me what it means to have a real, true and deep relationship with Jesus, and the difference between being independent and controlled. You are an inspiration to all of your family who still and always will want the best for you. I hope you can still see the love we have for you even into the 100's of years of age. You will be remembered always with love. May you find the peace which passeth all understanding. May all your days be filled with friends who love you as much as we do.

Tammy Major-Spencer
Jacksonville, FL

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As Donnie precepted me through my field internship of my chosen career, he showed me what it means to be a true professional. Whether it be riding on high when something went right, or taking criticism like a man when everything went sour. At a time when I was ready to give everything up, he took the time to show me that it all works out in the end. Donnie was more than a mentor, he was a true friend. Even after we moved in different directions when better job opportunities came along, we kept in touch. Donnie continues to be a sounding board for me to this day. I could never thank him enough for all that he did, and continues to do, for me. Donnie, you have set a level to which I continue to strive to reach. Thank you.

Jeff S.
Villa Grove, IL

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I am very fortunate to have my parents as my greatest mentors and my best friends.

While the road was a little bumpy in my teen years, we made it through and grew closer as a result. Now that I am older, I see their guidance and support in so many little ways which I took for granted at the time.

I always know I can count on my mom and dad to "tell it like it is" and always be honest and upfront with me. I can only hope to offer the same gift to my own children someday.

Sara Winkler
West Palm Beach, FL

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i wanted to say thank you for every thing you done for me. it was a kind way of showing me something so thanks.

Chris Pendygraft, 13
Danville, KY

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Ruby Wilson was my 1st grade teacher over 30 years ago. She was my first mentor and continues to be my inspiration in my career as an educator.

Thank you Mrs. Wilson!!

Barri Kluft
Hallandale, FL

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Howard gave me the opportunity to work with him in developing a large educational testing system in 1987. He was gracious, shared credit freely when I made contributions, and set a wonderful example of professionalism.

Howard is a man about whom it can be said, "There is more than sufficient evidence to convict him of being a Christian."

Early in our professional relationship we found that we were also friends. His own humility makes him not comfortable being the "Father figure" in my life, but he is because my parents have nearly always lived a thousand miles away throughout my adult life.

I am now in the same position that Howard was when he mentored me 25 years ago. It is my desire to treat others as well as he did (and still does) and to bring his level of professionalism to the way I perform my tasks.

Thank you, Howard.

Steve Berry
Jacksonville, FL

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My name was Diane Marie Breeden at the time. I lived at the United Methodist Children's Home on 3900 West Broad St. Richmond, VA. I was between 5-10 years old. I am 51 now. I do not remember much about my mentor and I do not know her name. But I thought maybe she might remember me and be looking at this web site. If so it would be nice to talk to her. I have been thinking about being a mentor the last couple of years. Since I can't thank my big sister (as she was called) I would like to thank all the people who participate in this program and tell them what a wonderful gift this is to give a child who needs someone to care.

Diane Marie Breeden Partin
Cheriton, VA

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