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Getting the Most From A Visit to the Doctor
by
Lawren H. Daltroy, Dr.P.H.
Citation: Daltroy LH. Getting the most from a visit to the doctor. Harvard
School of Public Health: Health Literacy Website. 2001. Available at:
http://www.hsph.harvard.edu/ healthliteracy/talk_drvisit.html. Accessed “insert date.”
All
of us go to the doctor at one time or another. Considering
how important these visits can be, it is surprising that we don't get any
training for them. Visits often just seem
to happen, and afterwards we find ourselves saying, "Oh! I forgot to ask about...! I
wonder what the doctor meant by…!” Knowing what we want out of a visit,
preparing for it, and following some simple steps can help us get the most out
of our visits.
Before
your Visit
Step
1
Know what
you want. Most visits for arthritis are
not emergencies, so you will have time to prepare. You may want one or more of the following:
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A
diagnosis. "A name for my
condition."
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A
prognosis. 'What will happen? What will this mean for me?"
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Reassurance. 'Just tell me this won't get worse, and I can cope."
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A new treatment so your symptoms will go away or stay under control.
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An
end to a treatment that does not help or is causing problems.
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Help
with practical problems, like keeping your job, taking care of your family,
and keeping up with exercise and a social life.
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Help
with feelings, fatigue, or depression. “I need to talk to someone who
understands and can help.”
Be
honest about what you want from a visit. Arthritis can affect all parts of your
life. However, many people feel that they
need a physical I complaint to justify a visit. If you are really going to see the doctor because you are
having trouble taking care of your family or are feeling tired and blue, let the
doctor know this. Otherwise the doctor may concentrate on your physical
complaint and never address your other concerns.
Step
2
Make
a list. Write down what you want from
your visit. Ask your family for good questions. Sometimes the people around us
see what we need more clearly than we do ourselves. Family members may want
information to reassure themselves or so they can help.
Put
your most important questions first. You may need more than one visit if you
have a long list.
Step 3
Practice
asking your questions. Asking questions
doesn't seem hard, so why practice? Practice
helps us to act. Practice makes us
focus, clarifies our thinking, helps us remember, and gives us courage. Studies
have shown that patients who practice first ask more questions and get more of the information that they need. Practice
is as simple as telling someone else what you want to ask the doctor Listen to
yourself as you practice asking a question. Is it clear? Does the other person understand what you want? If not, ask the question a different way.
It will pay off.
Step
4
Gather
any information about your health that the doctor might need. This includes names and doses of your medicines. It could be a list of your symptoms, test results, or a letter from
another doctor. This is especially important for a first visit to a new doctor. The more complete your information is, the sooner your doctor can help.
Step
5
Bring
a family member or a friend. For many of us, a visit to the doctor raises
anxiety. We’re worried about a new symptom, about the meaning of a diagnosis. It is hard to think clearly and remember things when we're anxious and
feeling ill. Another person can
help remember things you have forgotten. He
or she may hear things that you miss or write things down if you are busy or
self-conscious. Make it clear
before the visit, however, that your ally is there to support YOU and should
stay out of the conversation unless invited.
During
your Visit
Step
6
Ask your questions. Most patients
ask only a few questions during a visit. The
result? Most patients get information than they want, and doctors think that
patients understand more than they usually do. If
you don't ask questions, your doctor may assume that you understand, or that you
do not care to know more. He or she
cannot guess what your concerns are. Most doctors appreciate patients who ask
good questions.
What
is a good question? A good question is
specific, timely, and well thought out. A good question gets results.Here are some tips for asking good questions.
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Be
specific. If you ask, 'How am I
doing?" you may hear 'Not too bad.' If you want to know how serious
your arthritis is or how long a treatment must be taken, then ask that.
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Be
direct. Do not hint. Your doctor cannot guess what you want.
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Be
timely and thoughtful. Tell
your doctor at the beginning of your visit that you have some questions.
Ask when to bring them up. This
gives you both a chance to organize your time together.
If you let the doctor know at the beginning that you have several
questions, you am more likely to get them addressed. In many visits the doctor starts asking about the first
problem mentioned, and the patient does not have time to bring up other
important problems.
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Get
an answer. A good question gets
a clear answer. If your doctor
doesn't answer, or if the answer is not clear, ask again.
Ask for details or simpler I words if that is a problem.
What gets in the way of asking questions?
Most people, including many physicians, find it hard to ask questions
when they are patients. Common reasons include the following:
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Forgetfulness.
Time is limited, and you may be anxious. This
is why you brought your list! Ask
new questions right away when you think of them.
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Embarrassment. Because arthritis affects such things as going to the bathroom,
having sex, or feeding yourself, you have good reasons to talk about such
concerns. Becoming comfortable with your physician may take time. Your
doctor's job is to help you live day to day with a chronic disease.
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Medical
jargon. Many medical words are technical. However, your doctor might not
realize you don't understand them, because he or she is so used to using
them. Ask if you can repeat something in your own words to be sure you
understand.
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The
doctor is too busy. Doctors get interrupted and sometimes act rushed.
However, your time is as important as the next patients’. Asking your
important questions first can help you and your doctor organize your visit.
Also, you can ask for booklets, a follow-up appointment, or a chance to talk
with another caregiver, such as a nurse or therapist.
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Feeling
intimidated. You have a right to answers to your questions, even if the
answer is "We don't know yet, until we do more tests."
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Fear
of the answers. Fearing the worst is natural, but the worst is rarely true.
Most problems in arthritis are manageable. The best way to reduce your fears
is to look for solutions and take action.
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Feeling
that "my question is not important." Anything important to you is
worth mentioning.
Step
7
Take
part in decisions about your care. Make sure your doctor knows your goals (see
that list!). The doctor's goals may be to reduce inflammation and pain slow
disease progress. Yours may be to keep working or to be able to pick up your
grandchildren. Share your goals with the doctor, to make sure that the
treatments meet your needs.
Find
our your options. Your doctor will suggest treatments and tests based on his or
her experience and knowledge of you. Ask your doctor to discuss the pros and
cons. Get information from other health professionals, books, and the Internet.
Find
out benefits and drawbacks for each option, for yourself and your family. All
treatments are not alike. If more than one might work for you, then your
preferences become important. What are the side effects, costs, and likelihood
of success for each treatment? Will you need a ride to the clinic every week for
one treatment, only once a month for another?
Consider
which options are modifiable. Even if options are limited, you may be able to
change them to suit you better. Perhaps you can take fewer doses of a drug or
substitute one exercise for another. Even small changes can make a treatment
more acceptable. You are more likely to stick with a program that suits you.
Don't
rush. For most problems in arthritis, you have time to think about changes. If
you are unsure about trying a new treatment, ask your doctor what will happen if
you do nothing new for a while longer. You may have more time for most decisions
than you think.
Step
8
Know your diagnosis, the purpose of each treatment, and how to follow it.
There are over 100 kinds of arthritis and rheumatic conditions. If you don't
know which one you have, you may easily read about the wrong condition and think
it applies to you.
You'll
want to know the following:
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What
is this treatment's purpose? Is it for pain? For swelling?
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How
long will it take to work? A few days? Three months?
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How
often do you have to take it? With food or without?
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Will
it cause problems with your other medications?
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How
long will you have to take it? A month? Indefinitely?
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Are
there any likely drawbacks? These include symptoms like stomach upset, but
also cost and inconvenience to you and your family.
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Are
there ways to overcome drawbacks? Having a plan can help you overcome
obstacles, and your doctor may know of things other patients have done to
cope.
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What
if the treatment isn't working? Many arthritis medicines work for some
people but not for others. Or one might work for you for a while and then
stop doing so. If so, tell the doctor, so you can work out your next steps
together. Don't stop a treatment without telling your doctor what you are
doing and why.
Step 9
Get
it in writing. People forget half of what a doctor tells them within five
minutes. If you get information about your diagnosis and treatments in writing,
you will be less likely to forget and make a mistake that might hurt you. Ask
the doctor for booklets about your condition and treatments.
After your Visit
Step 10
Review your notes. Read your notes, and write down anything else you can remember. Date
the notes and save them, to help you later.
Step 11
Phone
your doctor if necessary. If you forgot to ask the doctor something, don't be
shy. Call and ask your question. Your doctor would prefer that you get it right!
If you have a problem with your treatment, call your doctor. He or she may want
to make adjustments or see you again.
Summing
up
You
have the right to full information about your health and medical treatments.
Make a list of concerns before your visit, and practice asking your questions
clearly. In the office, present your most important questions early. Be specific
and direct. You can help your doctor help you by providing clear information and
by sharing your goals and concerns. Find out the pros and cons of each option.
Participate in decision making; you will be more likely to stick with a
treatment you helped design. Make sure you know your diagnosis, the purpose of
each treatment, and how to follow it. Get it in writing to help you remember.
Finally, if you forget something, call back and ask. Doctors are human and they
vary in their ability to communicate. It is up to both of you to make your
conversation work well.
Lawren
H. Daltroy is Associate Director of the RBB Arthritis Research Center at Brigham & Women's Hospital in Boston, Associate Professor in Medicine, Harvard
Medical School, and Associate Professor of Health and Social Behavior, Harvard
School of Public Health.
Definitions
Clinical Trial
A
scientific study designed to test the safety and effectiveness of new treatments
that have shown promise in laboratory and animal studies.
Treatments
are tested in three phases so as to minimize the risks to participants. In phase
I studies, the treatment is given to a small number of healthy people to find
out how the drug acts in the body, evaluate safety, and see how big a dose can
be given without causing unacceptable side effects. Phase II studies, of a
slightly larger group, look again at the treatment’s safety and also at its
effectiveness. Phase III studies, which are much larger, look at the
treatment’s safety and effectiveness again, comparing it with the current
standard of treatment. In a typical study, one group of participants (the
“treatment” group) receives the treatment being tested and another group
(the “control” group) is given either the standard treatment or an inactive
treatment, or placebo. Testing the new treatment against the standard treatment
allows researchers to see if the new treatment is better. Testing it against a
placebo allows them to see if the participants’ response is psychological
rather than physiological. (People taking a placebo generally feel better,
because they believe they’re doing something to help themselves.) (Edited
by Robert S. Dinsmoor, a freelance medical writer and editor based in
Massachusetts).
Questions and Answers
Q.
My daughter wants me to eat fish three times a week because she things this
will help my rheumatoid arthritis (RA). Is she right?
A.
Animal studies have shown that components of fish oil called omega-3 fatty
acids block the ability of cells to make some of the substances that cause
inflammation. These fatty acids are eicosapentaenoic acid (EPA and
docosahexaenoic acid (DHA). They are found in cold-water fish such as salmon,
mackerel, bluefish, sardines, and tuna.
Studies in humans found that when people with RA took fish oil capsules containing a
total of around 3-5 grams of EPA/DHA every day, some of the me experienced a
modest decrease in stiffness and joint tenderness. And some were able to
decrease the amounts of nonsteroidal anti-inflammatory drugs (NSAIDs) they were
taking. In other words, EPA and DHA do not have any major effects on RA, but
they might help with symptoms in much the same way as aspirin and other NSAIDs
do. Studies have shown that fish oils are also modestly effective in some people
with psoriatic arthritis and Raynaud’s phenomenon.
But
fish oils do not work for everyone. There’s no guarantee that they will
moderate your symptoms. If you want to try fish or fish oils, be sure to discuss
this with your doctor. They can interact with other medicines you’re taking,
including blood thinners and some herbs.
To
get as much EPA/DHA via fish oil capsules as the people in the studies did,
you’d have to swallow around 10-15 capsules a day. The capsules aren’t
cheap, and your insurance probably won’t cover them. Eating four to six meals
of cold water fish weekly may be equivalent to using fish oil capsules and would
be part of a healthful diet. (Richard Panush, M.D.,
Professor and Chairman, Department of Medicine, St. Barnabus
Medical Center, Livingston, New Jersey).
Reprinted with permission from Arthritis Self-Management. Copyright © 2001 R.A.
Rapaport Publishing, Inc. For subscription information, call (800) 234-0923.
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